The bulky myth, dealt with once
A 2020 systematic review found similar muscle-growth effects in men and women following the same resistance-training programmes. That does not mean identical kilograms of muscle gained or the same visible result. It does mean that lower testosterone alone is not a sound reason to tell women they cannot build muscle effectively.
Choose a routine you can repeat, record your lifts and judge the changes over time. The muscle-building guide explains how training, food and your starting point fit together.
What lifting adds alongside cardio
Resistance training develops strength and muscle. Cardio contributes to fitness and energy expenditure. They can sit in the same week; neither guarantees a particular body shape. A review in adults with overweight or obesity found improvements in body composition with resistance-based programmes, with results varying between groups and programmes.
It also protects muscle while you are in a deficit, so more of the weight you lose is fat. That is the whole mechanism behind recomposition.
The numbers that genuinely differ
The training principles are shared: progression, recovery and a routine you can repeat. Food needs also depend on bodyweight, activity and goals. The protein guide explains the evidence behind training-related targets.
A comparison photo or a body-fat estimate is not a personal target. Track your own progress instead of adding a fixed number of percentage points to somebody else's result.
Tracking around your cycle
Record how you feel alongside your training log and look for a pattern across cycles. A 2020 review of exercise performance in women with regular, natural menstrual cycles found trivial average effects, substantial variation and low-quality evidence. It did not support one training rule for everyone at each phase.
Read your weight trend alongside training progress and how you feel; one measurement cannot tell the whole story. See why weight loss stalls.
Bone density and the long game
Bone health is another reason to stay active. A Cochrane review in postmenopausal women found small improvements in bone density from exercise; the evidence did not establish a reduction in fractures. Anyone with osteoporosis or a previous fracture needs advice on suitable exercise for their circumstances.
Where to start
Two or three full-body sessions a week, compound lifts, and the same progression rules as anyone else — see progressive overload. The free Day One pack covers the first gym session if you have never done one, protein targets are the other half of it, and the macro calculator works out both numbers for you. Trying to build muscle and lose fat at the same time? How to build muscle without getting fat covers the numbers.
Squeezing those sessions in around kids and a job is its own problem — staying fit as a busy mum is written for exactly that week, short sessions and all.
Frequently Asked Questions
Will lifting weights make me bulky?
Lifting can build muscle, but it does not guarantee a particular size or shape. A 2020 review found similar muscle-growth effects in men and women using the same training programmes; individual results and absolute gains vary.
Should women lift heavy or light weights?
Both lighter and heavier loads can build muscle. A 2017 review of studies with sets taken to muscular failure found similar muscle-growth results, while heavier loads improved one-repetition maximum strength more. This finding is not a requirement to train every set to failure.
How much protein should a woman eat?
For healthy adults doing resistance training, about 1.6g of protein per kg of bodyweight per day is a useful reference point. A 2018 meta-analysis found no further average lean-mass benefit from supplementation above roughly this total intake. Individual needs vary; our protein guide explains the context.
Why does my weight go up before my period?
Fluid retention can raise scale weight before a period. It varies between people and months, so there is no fixed kilogram change everyone should expect. Keep a record of symptoms and seek GP advice if they affect daily life.
Is cardio or weights better for fat loss?
Energy balance matters for fat loss, while resistance training and cardio offer different fitness benefits. Resistance training develops strength and muscle; cardio supports aerobic fitness. Neither alone guarantees a particular change in body composition.
About the author
Keith O’Beirne went from 90kg to 72kg around a full-time job and two kids, after paying a personal trainer to learn the basics. He is not a doctor, dietitian or coach and does not sell coaching — he writes No Nonsense Fitness to give away what he paid to learn, free, with no ads. Based in Dublin.
References & further reading
- Roberts BM et al. Sex differences in resistance training: a systematic review and meta-analysis. 2020.
- Schoenfeld BJ et al. Strength and hypertrophy adaptations between low- vs. high-load resistance training. 2017.
- McNulty KL et al. The Effects of Menstrual Cycle Phase on Exercise Performance in Eumenorrheic Women: A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis. 2020.
- Howe TE et al. Exercise for preventing and treating osteoporosis in postmenopausal women. Cochrane, 2011.
- Lopez P et al. Moderators of resistance training effects in overweight and obese adults. 2022.
- Morton RW et al. (2018): review of protein supplementation and resistance-training gains in healthy adults.
- Cambridgeshire and Peterborough NHS: PMS and fluid retention (Keeping Safe workbook).
- NHS: PMS symptoms, individual variation and when to seek help.
These sources cover different populations and study designs. Group averages do not predict an individual result. Claims and links checked 11 October 2026.
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